Love Is an Addiction – Grow It

ankaj.

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Love has no limit or it should not. If you truly love somebody, you realize the meaning of phrase “love is blind.” You are blind to your partner’s simple faults. You know you are not perfect and so you do not expect them to be perfect. Love is not tangible; it is not like a drum of water that dries with evaporation. Love is an addiction. Yes, you heard it right! The more you exercise it, the better you become at it or should become better at it.
Love, however, comes with a warning sticker – it is unknown and forgetful. People you love often take you for granted, but you need to remember that they do not do it out of ill will; they love you back as much as you love them, but wrongfully assume you don’t need to hear it.
In the secret, you may become restless and resentful. Unfortunately, you cannot keep these emotions secret for long, so you will eventually blow up and accuse them of real and imagined crimes. You take them by surprise and scare the hell out of them since they didn’t see it coming. They in turn, accuse you of changing into a person they do not recognize… a beautiful habit is broken into pieces and buried. It can truly be a painful expertise.
If you love someone, practice habits that keep the fire burning. To set you off, here are a few:
• Every day, without fail, say, “I love you” to them. I know some tough people who think this is the definition of soft, but if you can fall in love… Assure your woman particularly; they are inferior like that. They need to hear these things often, but she also needs to say it to you.
• Nobody is perfect, not even the person you hopelessly love. They will make mistakes, tons of them, some are even repeat offenders, but if the mistake does not make it into the penal code, forgive. You will not judge because love understands that those you love are not perfect.
• You will value those you love by often doing something nice to them. It does not have to be grand, even picking up a dusty flower from somebody’s fence will do. It is the thought that counts.
• It is not about you; it is about your partner. Make them happy; good deeds attract good deeds, and if they love you back, they will make it their company to make you happy.
• If someone hits you, if they cheat on you, if they regularly bring you down, they do not love you, and you cannot probably love them. Love is neither violent nor cruel........click here for more.